@SelfsameSynonym are they talking about the trans "umbrella" stuff that includes cis gay drag queens and stuff? Basically anyone who is gender non-conforming but I like that term better for cis folks.

@jamuraa It's largely afab NBs saying things along the lines of "I'm afab and I like being a woman, but I'm not really girly, so I'm kinda part trans, part cis." I'm NB so I completely sympathize with the lack of appropriate language to talk about our experience, but the whole thing stinks of the "trans women are oppressing me let's use an asterisk" discourse.

@SelfsameSynonym yea thats weird but you don't get to be trans and cis at the same time