✨Spirit Halloween⚧Femme✨ a changé de compte pour @ikea_femme@octodon.social :
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✨Spirit Halloween⚧Femme✨ @ikea_femme@witches.town

I mentioned this on my other profile, but when I stopped by the computer science club at my school, the club president joked about tits when he found out the women's shirts with the club logo cost more.

Maybe he didn't realize he was being sexist. Maybe he thought women can take those jokes. But imagine dealing with that shit 16 hours a week, for four years, and knowing you need to colab with those jerks on group projects. And a lot of them don't get it's alienating in the first place.

My fiancee suggested a women and gender studies course be an early requirement for majors, and I totally agree with her. Guys in my major are so tone-deaf, and they're making women uncomfortable.

It makes more sense than my school requiring me to take a nutrition and exercise course (because I think they think console jockeys are fat)

Like, it's weird. I'm wearing less makeup, but I think HRT and springtime outfits make it easier for my body to sell my femininity. And I think I have the confidence of knowing I'm a woman and not worrying so much about it, while before I treated it very much like a careful act.

It's a nice development.

I think I'm possibly passing more, because other women in the bathroom tend to ask mundane questions these days (ie, where are those tights from? is your sink scalding hot, too?), rather than pretend I'm not there. My composition then breaks, and tears run down my face like that scene in get out because my femme voice IS NOT up to that.

I look forward to finding a Mastodon instance I can recommend for men looking for a community built around nurturing healthy masculinity the same way witches.town is specifically for building a community for strong feminism.

Goodness gracious I am a two instance tooter! @ikea_femme is my original one!