@ikea_femme @Elizafox @bea @SarcasmKid
oh! no, I meant Eliza's assumption that she never makes assumptions about people
I used to think that myself but then I realized I was still automatically assuming LOTS of things and I still do -- I just try to examine it consciously
I used to assume EVERYBODY felt schools were prisons -- most people don't to the degree I do/did.
I used to assume EVERYBODY kind of just hated their family -- it's not universally the case.
etc. etc.
self-neg Afficher plus
@ikea_femme @Elizafox @bea @SarcasmKid
:( <3
yeah. assumptions can be kinda insidious, esp about the worst parts of our lives -- so often people don't want to revisit those things, so -- assumptions are the glue in places we haven't yet examined/unpacked/etc.