@kara_dreamer same here, in my own ways. Things are going right for me, but it's a lot of change and some of its hard to digest. Like, I'm in the big city now and it's a lot easier for me to relax and have fun here without driving.

But I also know I don't pass as well as I did in the suburbs. Living and working in two different gayborhoods mean people expect to see queer people and read me as trans a lot more often, and while they're never mean, it's uncomfortable for me...