**✨Spirit Halloween⚧Femme✨** @ikea_femme · 21 août 2017, 04:56

**✨Spirit Halloween⚧Femme✨** @ikea_femme · 21 août 2017, 04:56

✨Spirit Halloween⚧Femme✨ @ikea_femme

21 août 2017, 04:56

✨Spirit Halloween⚧Femme✨ @ikea_femme

confusion at actually meeting other trans women for the first time Afficher plus

It's weird that now that I'm in the city and actually meeting other trans femmes in person, I honestly don't feel there's automatically some connection. It's not that they're unlikable or mean, but more that I realize I don't have a lot in common with their experiences, even along being trans. So that's creating doubt, especially what with the whole "You're probably best off dating other trans women" advice I get a lot.

**✨Spirit Halloween⚧Femme✨** @ikea_femme · 2017-08-21T05:02:38Z

✨Spirit Halloween⚧Femme✨ @ikea_femme

confusion at actually meeting other trans women for the first time Afficher plus

And it kind of sucks on top of my bi/straight feelings growing. My ex said some questionable things when word got to her that I don't really consider myself a lesbian. Which is weird, she herself is bi, and her last boyfriend figured out he was gay while dating her.

I get that men are pigs and the male gaze sucks, but I get sparks more for guys than women of any experience.

21 août 2017, 05:02 · Twidere for Android · 0 · 0

**✨Spirit Halloween⚧Femme✨** @ikea_femme · 21 août 2017, 05:13

**✨Spirit Halloween⚧Femme✨** @ikea_femme · 21 août 2017, 05:13

21 août 2017, 05:13

✨Spirit Halloween⚧Femme✨ @ikea_femme

confusion at actually meeting other trans women for the first time Afficher plus

I mean, to get gross, I feel like I get interested in maybe one type of female body (short and curvy, which is kind of rare with us 😞), and I'm curious about a bunch of different male body types. Way more men than women catch my eyes these days.

And I was never really trans attracted. Trans people sort of made me uncomfortable before I accepted I was trans, like I knew on some level they'd evoke difficult thoughts I buried.

**❌ moved to wandering.shop** @listelian · 21 août 2017, 14:07

**❌ moved to wandering.shop** @listelian · 21 août 2017, 14:07

21 août 2017, 14:07

❌ moved to wandering.shop @listelian

confusion at actually meeting other trans women for the first time Afficher plus

@ikea_femme I mean, if you're feeling more into men lately, go for it. And there are totally non-gay trans men to be dated, too.

I've been enjoying getting with trans women and related enbies a lot lately, bit that doesn't mean it's superior or just happens automatically. (And in fact it bothers me when people assume it will just happen automatically. Like, I still need chemistry with that particular person.)

**✨Spirit Halloween⚧Femme✨** @ikea_femme · 21 août 2017, 19:31

**✨Spirit Halloween⚧Femme✨** @ikea_femme · 21 août 2017, 19:31

21 août 2017, 19:31

✨Spirit Halloween⚧Femme✨ @ikea_femme

confusion at actually meeting other trans women for the first time Afficher plus

@listelian My big problem is that I've put off dating even though I want to date for various reasons, and now I'm just kind of "???" sexually. Don't much care for my old porn, I like some different erotica now, but in a really inconsistent way.

I guess if HRT is a second puberty, I'm going through that awkward teenage phase where everything and nothing is sexy and you have to figure yourself out. Again.