I mentioned this on my other profile, but when I stopped by the computer science club at my school, the club president joked about tits when he found out the women's shirts with the club logo cost more.
Maybe he didn't realize he was being sexist. Maybe he thought women can take those jokes. But imagine dealing with that shit 16 hours a week, for four years, and knowing you need to colab with those jerks on group projects. And a lot of them don't get it's alienating in the first place.
@ikea_femme wow