@kelly Yeah. I think the big thing is that cis people assume every trans person is born knowing that they can transition and how to safely ask for it, when we really just get a slowly growing awareness of trans people and transition like everyone else.

Yeah, there's people who are clearly gender nonconforming as kids, but even then, they don't know they're trans until they get the language for it.

And for a lot of us, it's not even that, but beyond seeing that you can transition, we need to see that we can transition and be whole people, and not just murder victims on SVU or sassy gay stereotypes.