Imagine how weird it is to talk to your mom about vaginoplasty.

It's weirder.

"So you want a vagina because you want to have sex with men?"

"No, my genitals don't have a lot to do with who I'll sleep with, I'm bi. Do you know how if you close your eyes, you're still aware of your body parts and where your body is in space?"

"Yes, but if you don't want to have sex with men will it work?"

@ikea_femme ...does she think cis lesbians need to sleep with men every so often for, like, maintenance reasons?

@listelian I seriously have no clue. I think it's just that kind of cis mindset that anatomy/bodily aesthetics are a matter of utility in attracting a mate. See people who say, "Why are you transitioning if it means you'll be gay?"