I wish I could stop processing that I exist at a junction between unfuckable and fetishized.
Like, I miss organically getting to like somebody at a party, and I feel that won't happen, because the parties I tend to get invited to are mostly straight people, who will probably have hangups about dating a trans woman. Until I see compelling evidence otherwise, I'm assuming most people will just consider what's between my legs a dealbreaker by default.
So I have to figure out online dating.
@ikea_femme So, I'm not saying we should only date other trans people, but it definitely is easier. And it can be a lot of fun!