Things I stay far away from: discussion of whether ace people belong in the queer community. These things never seem to go well... And some of my bookface groups are discoursing™. Kinda like why I left Tumblr.
@TipsyTentacle ugh, that argument is depressing. I'm leaning towards inclusivity, but understand the impulse to want the queer community to be specific people and not just everyone who isn't into heterosexual cisgender monogamy.