I wish it didn't make me feel so uncomfortable to think about dating otherwise cute genderqueer amabs who wear skirts and dresses with facial hair. Just saw an otherwise cute person on OKC.

Like, I get that gender is yours to play with, and that society-wise, nobody should stand in their way. But for me personally, I worry I could never get along romantically with someone like that, because my own dysphoria doesn't let me be comfortable with that kind of mixed gender expression, and I'm frankly a bit jealous of that freedom. :-/

Such an arbitrary dealbreaker.