@alyx Yeah, I never really asked to join the facebook group, and I'm spooked by how crazy people are about doxxing trans goons.

What's hard for me is that I love my fiancee, and she was a real asset to me as I transitioned and recovered from depression, but I don't think I could handle being her monogamous partner for life. She's too emotionally needy, and I'm easily tempted into being her therapist. I just couldn't live with her and get a good night's sleep because she'd have so many episodes where I needed to talk her down, or rock her to sleep. She wasn't always like that, and I hope she recovers. And with HRT sappiness, it hurt more to see her sad.