@alyx I started reading it, but put it down when I got to the part where she realized she needed to be a single woman.
Because damn. That was me. At the time, I was clinging to my fiancee, who herself was becoming dependent and a bit more distant than she used to be. And I realized, "why am I clinging to her? Why did I even propose?"
So that was upsetting and I switched back to The Wind Up Bird Chronicle.
Now I'm separated from her, and I'm finding my doppel-egg-er on OKC. And I finished the Wind Up Bird Chronicle.