@scanlime I am basically the same. I try to remind myself that if I was born in their position, I would be the same as them. Most people operate on a different wavelength than me, but there is commonality. It is like wishing I could give advice to my past self, or my future self would talk to me. I try to imagine what that person's future self would want me to do for them. Easier said than done, but I try. At very least I strive to do no harm.