Right now it looks like the most feasible thing is for me and my husband to live separately for a year. We would not be the first couple to have to do this because of work stuff. We've evaluated what we want long term and since it would just be a year.... I still want to stay home from work and just cry today.
@ruth My parents had to do this for a while, like, right after I left for college (empty nest!). It was pretty tough but do-able, but, yeah, it's hard stuff.
@gzt I don't feel...worried about our marriage?...but I feel worried about our happiness. However "you can do anything for a year"