My goal for the next few months/this year is grow into caring less and less how people react to me vs. others.

I am pretty self-assured now, in that, if I want to do something, I will do it regardless of what other people think/feel (unless it's hurting someone/something). However I will still often compare or remember my treatment to someone else who says/does something similar.

And this comparison hurts because I never win, and it brings me down, if even for a little bit.

Anyone relate? Any advice?