“Domination does not work by appearing as domination. Domination works by presenting a dominant view as just another view (that someone has the right to express). This is why the socially and politically dominant present themselves as discursively marginal: as having to fight a consensus to articulate a viewpoint.” - Sara Ahmed
https://feministkilljoys.com/2017/11/05/the-figure-of-the-abuser/amp/