So here I am, new to life, at 21.
Still looking for the instructions leaflet.
@Morgane I wish I had been so clued into myself at 21. It took me a long time to come to terms with who I am.
@Eve I have met many people telling me so. I have met people starting transition at 70 (or 75, something like that). Some starting it at 14 or 15. And everybody was looking at that young person helped by its parents and felt kinda down.
I... think wishes shall be kept for what's to come. I know life is unfair, if we search fairness in our paths. But... we have one life, what had been lies in the past, what matters is what there is now, and what we can hope and build in the future.
Clumsy way to say that everybody has its own rythm, there is no right or wrong. It takes a time different according to each one's story. What matters is now, and what lies after.
@geekylou @Eve Haha, I knew of some, but it was the opposite, people wanting me not to get surgery. Well, what they want is of no importance compared to what I need to feel well, in my own body. So I won't rush, even if I could wish for it. I will wait and see how I feel after some more months. And what happens. My whole life is being turned upside-down.
@geekylou @Morgane this is great advice. I've heard from some others with regrets ....