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The dominant cultural image of a woman is highly racialized, classist, heteronormative, and impossible. All those generic pop feminism body image campaigns apply to you too. You're just saying "woman" while they say "pretty." Actually take a look at the jawlines, shoulders, upper lips, etc. Of the women you see in daily life. The random middle aged moms on the bus. Customers. Co-workers. People who are physically present not in photos.

If they were trans they would fail your appearance test

river @eribloodlust

@shel @maunzikation what do u mean if they were trans they would fail your appearance test...

@eribloodlust @maunzikation when you're looking at yourself, or a trans woman, the criteria you're using to determine if you "pass as a woman" or "look like a woman" aren't being defined by what normal women look like but by this idealized TV woman. Most/Many cis women, if held to those criteria, would be deemed as "not cis passing"

like if u told a cis person that many cis women were trans they might go "yeah i could tell"

@maunzikation @eribloodlust here's Rosie O'Donnel. Her facial structure is definitely what many trans women look at and go "i look like a man" but rosie o'donnel is a celebrity that people aren't confused by like she's undeniably a woman who looks like a woman. Likewise Ellen on this DVD cover. and these ARE TV women they're already Prettified. Ordinary women would "pass" even less cybre.space/media/EGgmTbQ3JKuR cybre.space/media/wvHijpTD3rZC

@eribloodlust @maunzikation Like what do trans women despair about most? Forehead size, square face, jaws, facial hair, shoulders

plenty of cis women pass with ALL of these things being the trans women see or as seen as "failing to be a woman"

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@maunzikation @eribloodlust if u just are confidently a woman, aren't "trying too hard", and in a normal setting where ppl aren't expecting trans people, nobody will even question these traits cuz cis women have them all the time