@natanji it sucks, like i can put off the conversation for some time, but not forever. siunds like it would be even harder with a partner... welp im not attracted to this person in the slightest. we just dont have a good living dynamic. nothing overtly maliscious. theres just a big pressure to be her emo support because im trans and because all her friends/partners ran away this year and i was living here thru that. i didnt ask for the job.....