@natanji no for sure im talking about a specific case where in a plenum where trans women, autistic ppl, and poc are often excluding using this language, and then ppl say "what makes u uncomfortable?" and the majority says "u cant question their feelings", i think ppl should be able to question. in that case. not talking abt other cases. also these are ppl who say outright bigoted things. the feelings of oppressed mean nithing to them. double standards