@natanji i think the thing is that a lot of the time its not even about feelings, itsbusing the language of feelings to manipulate an outcome. because white/cis feelings are more important than oppression of minorities, the people in power positions can use this language to get their way and block any questioning. maybe sometimes it has to do with feelings, but then in political space i think feelings that lead to exclusion should be questioned. ex) in a plenum