@amphetamine not even arguing, they're shitty af.

I guess non-malicious fits more? Like it makes more sense to me now because I always saw it as them being rude AF to me and men I worked with just didn't see it.

and now I get why, and it's like, oh cool, you've got a societal defect, you don't even GET you're being rude.

@edensaesthetic i guess you're right, but i'm pretty feisty i guess

all about that cromwell's rule

@CursedConfetti YUP. all the fucking time. Wish I knew how to avoid it more.

me: "cool so we're building this algo"
> "What are we building it on?"
"dunno yet. Probably AWS"
> "Well actually GCS is better because (..)"

oh, well, it wasn't relevant, and I didn't care, but now we all get to hear a male opinion. goodie.

@edensaesthetic when I was 19 I was managing the rent for a 3bd apartment and there was a fuckboy 10 years older than me who refused to talk to me about rent and would always go through my incompetent bf at the time because reasons

Femme lessons I wished I picked up sooner