@edensaesthetic toxicity, toxicity everywhere

@edensaesthetic nah being ignorant and uncritical in a shit society is bad

they're naive or shitty and if they're grown adults they need to own either

i know it's a high bar but literally the entire society can't afford any less

@amphetamine not even arguing, they're shitty af.

I guess non-malicious fits more? Like it makes more sense to me now because I always saw it as them being rude AF to me and men I worked with just didn't see it.

and now I get why, and it's like, oh cool, you've got a societal defect, you don't even GET you're being rude.

@edensaesthetic i guess you're right, but i'm pretty feisty i guess

all about that cromwell's rule

@edensaesthetic its so aggravating, particularly when I've had to deal with roommates and my work knowing that no matter what I say, what some dude has to say takes precedence

And as a trans person, cis people tend to prefer to only listen to cis people

Its one of those things that the main thing that is in your power is to be able to recognize the pattern and themes

@CursedConfetti YUP. all the fucking time. Wish I knew how to avoid it more.

me: "cool so we're building this algo"
> "What are we building it on?"
"dunno yet. Probably AWS"
> "Well actually GCS is better because (..)"

oh, well, it wasn't relevant, and I didn't care, but now we all get to hear a male opinion. goodie.

@edensaesthetic when I was 19 I was managing the rent for a 3bd apartment and there was a fuckboy 10 years older than me who refused to talk to me about rent and would always go through my incompetent bf at the time because reasons

Femme lessons I wished I picked up sooner