I guess when I was younger and less aware of things I might have had some views that were disrespectful of kids. I'm sorry for that now. It was an outlet for me, for constantly having to deal with this normative pressure to "breed", and it was the wrong one.
but what also happened was, that simply stating "I don't want to have kids" and "I don't think babies are cute" was twisted into "I hate kids".
maybe it's a thing that if you're considered a childhater just for not wanting to have children yourself, you react with provocation.. (and that's not excusing it.)
the kids are all right. the system stinks.