back from #girlfag #guydyke meetup and it was so interesting and very much debate again. about the terms/labels. it remains a difficult topic.

sometimes I feel it is also connected to respectability politics. getting caught up in reasoning like..
"look, we're no perverts, we mean no harm to anyone"

ehm no..
some of us ARE perverts and as long as it harms no one that's nobody's business, allright?

note: it's late and I've got a shift tomorrow morning so I won't be able to discuss this right away.