@arottenmeier ok I'm done and it was really short! now I regret that i didn't enter "girlfag" into the list of words I would use to describe myself, I thought that would come later.

as an anecdote: one person from berlin printed flyers for our meetup and there was a mistake, it read "Grilfag" and I loved that because I'm not girly enough. so I'll go with grily 😂

but not Grillfag please, because I don't like barbeque.