It's painful to witness queer online communities worried and dealing with losing people through #suicide.

at the same time, it's inevitable, when this is a community with a high suicide rate.

I have queer&trans people in my life who worry me and have been worrying me for years, I've lost someone through suicide, I've seen someone through surviving an attempt..

it's important to check in with yourself too, to care for yourself, it's hard to have to witness this.
it's important not to put blame on ourselves aka "we should have done more"

and dare I say it - it's for me also important to respect someone elses choice.