@noxy I'm sorry, but I'm not responsible if you didn't look up different sources of information. No one I know who identifies as a girlfag is seeing it as a fetish only, most not at all. I'm not too much into the practice of defining people's identities without taking into account their own voices.

a german equivalent of the word "fag" has been used to slur me. I don't say that to argue I am entitled to reclaim it, I say that to argue that your "slur for amab ppl only" idea is wrong, bc haters don't know which gender the people they slur were assigned at birth.

I'm not posing as an authority on anything but my own stuff here.