**distelfliege** @distelfliege · 11 nov. 2017, 11:12

**distelfliege** @distelfliege · 11 nov. 2017, 11:12

distelfliege @distelfliege

11 nov. 2017, 11:12

I remember when I was a teenager, I was told that hetero guys get a single earring in their left ear. and gay guys have single earring in their right ear. guess who had a single earring pierced into her right ear! :D

**distelfliege** @distelfliege · 11 nov. 2017, 11:15

**distelfliege** @distelfliege · 11 nov. 2017, 11:15

11 nov. 2017, 11:15

distelfliege @distelfliege

#girlfag Afficher plus

It's fun to discover those "early girlfag things" that I did way before becoming aware of being one, but also I don't want to fall into the trap of manipulating my story to fit into a consistent narrative. I'm not a 100% girlfag, never was, always was a person in between labels, and that's what I will always be.

**distelfliege** @distelfliege · 11 nov. 2017, 11:23

**distelfliege** @distelfliege · 11 nov. 2017, 11:23

11 nov. 2017, 11:23

distelfliege @distelfliege

#girlfag Afficher plus

re: girlfag terminology: I'm aware "fag" is not my term to reclaim, but tbh but all the people who for decades never protested against the term "fag hag" and now are complaining about ppl using "girlfag" can fuck right off.

what bothers them is not really the terminology, but that gendequeer people who aren't really men claim a gay male identity. things are complicated, and that's not going to go away.

**distelfliege** @distelfliege · 2017-11-11T11:27:06Z

distelfliege @distelfliege

#girlfag Afficher plus

I do have a little problem with the girlfag term myself, because of the "girl" in it. I never identified as a girl, I hate it when grown women are referred to as girls or fräulein or whatever diminuitive form there is. (if girl works for YOU that's fine though!)

but you know, that's the word we have ow, and I kind of have to roll with it.. meh

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