@dconley I'd say wear black nail polish! But that doesn't solve the inherent problem. 😕

@dconley ugggg. i know this feel. it's so draining to answer random impolite questions from people when you're trying to work through your own stuff and just live your experience.

i'd highly recommend at least doing it at home, or in situations where you won't have to have a confrontation or expend emotional labour about it. it's good for your heart, and you shouldn't let other people drain you to the point that you aren't doing things you enjoy.

big big hugs. ❤

@dconley im sorry ): that's so shit. have all the hugs you like 💜💜