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mental health, relationships Afficher plus
@cassolotl I'd be really interested to see how responses to the binary question vary across different binary trans identities.
@cassolotl I'm late to this but UGH, I wish I were surprised that binary people like me were 50% more likely than CIS people to say dysphoria = trans.
My only insight is that maybe staying in the binary brings extra pressure, social and internalized, to be "sure." Dysphoria lets us say, "Yes, I had to."
The thing is, my experience kind of lines up with this. When I have long, non-dysphoric stretches, I start to worry "maybe I'm not trans" (which is ~ridiculous~). That always leads to emotional collapse. It's gotten so I plan time off work when I feel it coming.
No real point, but these results are turning up my enby envy.
Rae Spoon Afficher plus
@Noelle808 I have to imagine this actual hero/ine did at some point wear a cape.
me: "im totally fine with commitment"
also me: thinks stickers are stressful because it's too much pressure to have to stick them in one place forever without being able to move them
Punishment is not something that happens to bad people. It happens to those who cannot stop it from happening. It is laundered pain, not a balancing of scales.
17776 is already here, just not well distributed
@href de rien! ☺️
@href *raises hand* Copy editor here.
@cassolotl those nudibranchia have incredible style.
@alyx yessss exactly what I needed...
@alyx thanks! Hi!
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