@grime_witch yeah pretty much?? like for me a lot of it is that these days I'm more and more asexual and can't remember what the point of sex was in the first place, and so there's just not that much of a difference bt romantic and platonic now
and tbh there never really was in the first place, because I've always had friends I've been low-key in love with and never felt any need to act on it because we already love each other?? what else is there to add I already love you how would it be different if we dated except like we'd hold hands more maybe?? except I also hold hands and cuddle with platonic friends! so what does it matter!