@panickyintheuk for sure, I love helping people figure out ADHD stuff :D and yeah, women present more with inattentive-type and tend to be better at hiding it due to socialization and all that. there's a lot of recent research about the under-diagnosis of women - many of us don't get diagnosed until we're adults and end up with depression/anxiety as a result: a history of failure/screwing up things that come easily to others makes us think we just suck at life.