@nergdron oh noooo I know that feel and it is not fun ):

@cmdrspacebabe yeah. it's like... i love these people. but i know i'm not being a great partner trying to juggle them all. gotta figure a way to sort it out without hurting anyone, if possible. *sigh*

@nergdron yeah. I have friends who've had partners overdo it and wound up spreading themselves too thin - except they refused to admit it or communicate about it, which is obviously not the right choice. Definitely best to be honest about it and try to figure out how best to ration your energy.