also given that I have pentacle leggings and plans/supplies for pentacle tank tops so I can be full gym witch, what are the downsides to also being full corporate goth in the rest of my time?
@Maenad Potential downside: Some people would stay away from you in work-social situations. OTOH that might be a useful self-selection filter. Those people are probably not that fun anyway.
@Maenad I was thinking "lunch" not "happy hour", but your point about status is also well taken.
@benhamill in general I end up doing a lot of admin/workshop organization so I've never had trouble socializing with local colleagues. Farther away colleagues are rougher (because everyone prefers hanging out with people they know better) but I do okay due to who my boss is and the fact that I've been around long enough.