No, you can't decide to exclude someone from a work meeting because they don't like them. Sure, they're whiny. So are you. How lacking in self-awareness are you?
"Oh, I know I can't say he can't attend the meeting." -- sure, so now you're trying to go around him to squeeze him out without ~you~ being the one to say no. That's not better.
@schomj Oh dear. So sorry you're having to deal with that.
@schomj Good on you.