SO's uncle is getting married on a cruise and we're leaving tomorrow and i am d r e a d i n g it

from what i can tell most of what there is to do is just....spend more money. literally their website is bragging about all the shopping you can do on the ship

also i have literally no clue what to wear for a cruise wedding and neither does anyone else in the family apparently because nobody will give me a straight answer

anyway i'm probably just gonna alternate sitting at the bar and somewhere with a view of the ocean and read for 3 days so like there are definitely worse things. i'm just really frustrated that we're spending so much time and money on a vacation that we didn't plan and would never have chosen for ourselves :-/

@ebeth Have only ever been on one cruise (to Alaska, on Holland America, a lot of years ago) but FWIW...there should be a lot more to do than shopping. Most of the big ships seem to have gyms, spas, libraries, and theatres (both movie and live shows). And the one I was on, there were lectures about where we were going--cultural, wildlife, and the like.