Having read Sunstone, I feel like I could get more out of the submissive track in Ladykiller in the sense that I can see where people are coming from in terms of the appeal of giving and receiving pain. I'm not sure where my comfort zone is now, but I can at least explore it and have something positive in my head.
I'd love bondagey femslash recommendations in general (with or without a serious pain element)
In part because I'm in two smutty co-writing RPs where I'm the domme
(Thought prompted by realizing I played my first explicit sub this weekend)