this (and the linked natreed blog) is a really good read for folks questioning gender stuff
Existence precedes essence: how I know that I am definitely transgender
https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/3wsid6/existence_precedes_essence_how_i_know_that_i_am/
@catoutofbed yes! that one is wonderful.
i linked it a few weeks ago :)
@alyx This one really helped me, from the same person who did the other linked blog
https://freethoughtblogs.com/nataliereed/2012/04/17/the-null-hypothecis/