current thoughts on mechanics of posting sensitive content here; anything wrong?
toot unlisted: visible if rando views yr timeline; goes to all followers; seems? to be excluded from tag search, even if you tag it (though why would you)
toot private: only visible to followers ON YOUR INSTANCE; those off-instance cannot see, i'm told
toot direct: must list all recipients, so only feasible if you're only including a few people
general privacy: once a toot is federated it is on the remote instances forever; you lack ability to delete everywhere but yr local instance. therefore use an external hosting site for sensitive images so you can delete them at will.