@AlexandriaYandere thank you. i like your last sentence in particular, "degrading in the least fun ways"

(human sexuality is so weird and complicated, hehe)

interesting you say "it's getting to the point" suggesting that you're noticing something intensifying of late

i'm just noticing the psychic toll it takes to see endless depictions of girls (ofc girls, this is anime) and women degraded and used like objects. i don't mean to kink-shame at all. it's just that the depictions are incred monotonous and crude and reflect so little of the full (female!!!) spectrum of human experience/sexuality