@clovery @Concerned_Catgirl Of course there's those that would innately believe me over them out of simply being part of my "in-group", and I try hard not to exploit that. But I'm only mortal and know I might fuck up someday.

But there's a LOT more people that, when confronted between a narrative between two people, immediately jump to side against the "aggressor", and their language is often revealing. Like for instance: "I'm not sure if this person abused before, but I SURE know the person being loud is being abusive [by mentioning this publicly]." Said after blocking me.