@Ulfra_Wolfe glad you're being looked after <3

stay with us nettle!

@Ulfra_Wolfe hey, for what it's worth, I've been glad to come on here and see you day after day. you're not pathetic, friend, you lost someone you loved. i know it's hard but hang in there <3

@Ulfra_Wolfe I dont know if they help right now but *offers lots of hugs*

you're a really, really good person.

@Ulfra_Wolfe ::offers support::

@Ulfra_Wolfe Hey... *offers a wing*

Thank you for saying something. Thank you for asking for help.

We've all got our demons to battle. Doesn't make you pathetic. 💙​

@Ulfra_Wolfe -offers hugs-

At least you knew to have your friends take care of you. You're going through a LOT right now and I don't think anyone would call you pathetic. A lot of the time we can't even control those kinds of thoughts. I don't know you super well, but from what I've seen, you're a very very strong person. Hang in there. 💚

@Ulfra_Wolfe

Nettle, I don't know much else about your life but I know at least part of why this is such a difficult time. And it IS difficult. Its not normal, its not right, its not fair, and its not okay.

But you are good and brave and loving and I know we all want you to stay with us.

Stick close to the people you trust. You've taken good steps for that.

*hugs* No shame. No judgement. Just love and support. <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3

@Ulfra_Wolfe
Glad you had friends to look out for you.

Glad you're still with us.

@Ulfra_Wolfe you’re here for a reason... if it was your time you wouldn’t even have to try....please stay safe, if you’re ever in need of a judgement free conversation, don’t hesitate to reach out to me.

@Ulfra_Wolfe
You're not pathetic.
Your mind is close to death, and it is close to you. It is only natural for those thoughts to stir inside you after something like this.The important thing is you still have perspective.

@Ulfra_Wolfe *hugs super tight*

I'm so sorry, Nettle <3 You're not pathetic. I know it's so much. I know it's hard right now.

I'm glad you're asking your friends to look out for you. Please stay safe, sweetie <3

@Ulfra_Wolfe you're not pathetic at all, what just happened can have a huge effects on you, it's okay, we love you a lot. sounds like maybe you need to take a break? you've done such a great job at taking care of everyone through his tumultuous time. <3 thank you for that

@Ulfra_Wolfe thank you for reaching out to your friends about this. people are there for you, healing is hard and takes time. you deserve kindness and space!

@Ulfra_Wolfe

@Ulfra_Wolfe *sends gentle warmhugthoughts* <3

@Ulfra_Wolfe *offers a hug*

it takes a lot of courage to admit how bad you're feeling, to let your friends know. Thank you for being brave

@Ulfra_Wolfe FFS, no. *hug* I haven't even gotten to sit down and commiserate with you properly. If I'm stuck here on this wet rockball, so are you. We have Work to do, and you're probably far more capable of it than I am. <3 *pets and scritches and hugs more*

@Ulfra_Wolfe nuuu ;~;

@Ulfra_Wolfe

you aren't pathetic

you're hurting

a lot of us are and you're not alone in it but you are under a weight I (and a lot of others) do not understand directly

I'm sorry it hurts so much

I hope you make it through and I'm sorry <3 :(

@Ulfra_Wolfe *gentle hugs on offer* Try to be kind to yourself, hon. You've been through a hell of a lot in the past few days. ;~;

@Ulfra_Wolfe I'm glad you've got backup. You're not pathetic. It's hard and awful and sometimes feels unbearable. You're dealing with a lot and it would be surprising if you didn't struggle. You're important and valuable and loved, though. Try to remember that.

@Ulfra_Wolfe I care about you lots and I'm glad you have folks watching out for you. You have built a good pack and I'm glad to know you and I expect to get to know you better in years to come. 💜​

@Ulfra_Wolfe ah yes. The Black Dog cuts one person off from the pack, gets them isolated, and takes them down. Then waits to see who's become unmoored enough to be their next victim.

@Ulfra_Wolfe hey I just read this. thinking about you.

@Ulfra_Wolfe I think you're great and kindred in a lot of ways and I hope to get to know you better

offers of hugs and tooth hugs

if you want to be a little woolball you can nest in my fuzzy beast coils

and if you want to be ferocious I'll hunt with you

💖

@Ulfra_Wolfe Hey, I just read this. I'm so sorry for what you're going through. You're not patheticm you're showing people it's ok to reach out to your friends and ask the people who love you to look out for you when you can't do it all on your own. ❤️