sexual attraction goes by gender and not sex when queer people speak of being gay or straight or pan or bi or w/e
things get muddled when you toss enby people into the mix and that's really a value judgement right there if an enby person call themselves "straight" or "gay"
PSA for quote, "the filthy cishets" Afficher plus
@TipsyTentacle idk i made that up, maybe the right word is simple "gender ~"
bc it's really confusng that we call it "sexual orientation" when it's not really relating to sex