poly question .... something in me kind of dislikes describing sbd as my primary bc i don't like making a "hierarchy" out of people ... but since i've been with my gf for 3 1/2 years and we live together and plan on marrying that kind of makes her my primary?? and we're mostly looking for a triad so does that even matter then? i don't know it's confusing
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@TheOtherAMF yeah it seems like just the fact that you've been with someone longer comes with certain stuff (like living situation and level of trust etc) ... i'm still hoping for a triad then ill likely not have to deal with it so much. also good luck with blue haired girl!!!