The Fame Witch @TheFameWitch@witches.town

I am extremely versed in this shit having been the victim of stalking and harassment for years, a lot of it with the same disinformation tactics.

Everything I unearthed when this was first brought up last year was crap. I looked at every screen shot. We searched and searched. It was either weirdly photoshopped crap and not one single reference that checked out.

If you have info I don't, let me know. But we've been through this many times now.

Hmm. Does anyone else think that it would be cool if you could worm a variety of different jobs, instead of just one? Like, obviously you're only going to be super skilled at one thing, but being able to take a day to just plant trees or whatever might make for a nice change of pace every now and again. :/

#introduction

Hello, I'm Shiro, admin of this "private" instance

I'm a shy bisexual subby white boy who does academic research on complex fluids for a living

Sometimes I participate in innocent conversations and activities that may include y̶i̶f̶f̶y̶furry feline stuff *wagwag*
(pat me pwz )

My Mstdn accounts are @Shiro 🔞 and @Shiro. Find my other profiles at https://mochi.academy/shiro.

good morning! today: no work and SUNSHINE! ☀️

For a lot of us (mostly French), it's gonna be our fisrt year en Mastodon. We found friends, happiness, joy, fun, help and freedom. We enjoy this 😘
So @gargron thank you for all the work done and all the work that you are still doing

RT @SJ_Mage@twitter.com: Peut-on passer cinq minutes à célébrer ModCloth qui fait porter ses vêtements par des mannequins de différentes tailles, montrant ainsi la différence de rendu ? https://www.modcloth.com/shop/tops/welcoming-wednesday-wrap-top/158143.html

Ce matin j'ai rêvé de @Shiro et @Hiraelle qui étaient trop choupis (non, c'était absolument pas lewd) et qui rencontraient mes parents. Ce qui est beaucoup moins choupi parce que ma famile est absolument pas safe.
C'est par contre très vitre parti sur du nimporte quoi avec des histoires de peluches licornes qui n'étaient peut être pas que des peluches, mais j'ai oublié tous les détails, et c'est vraiment dommage ^^
Je sais qu'il y avait aussi @Ymelia_ @Kuro et @Morgane, mais à part le fait que vous étiez là (et choupis) je n'en sais pas plus

RECAPTCHA's are user-hostile, horrendous for accesibility, and should only ever be temporarily implemented as a last resort

I'd give my left pinky to make RECAPTCHA disappear forever

O P E N - S O U R C E - F E D E R A T E D - C O M M U N I S M

A few years ago, a 71 year old Brazilian man near Rio de Janiero rescued a one year old Magellanic penguin.

Call the first João, and the second Dindin (pronounced roughly JIN-jin).

Dinjin has come back to visit João every year since. They greet each other with what I will call "beak snuffles". Both of them seem to delight in each others' company.

An old man and a young penguin, best friends forever.

For me, that is *squeeeee* material ∑:D

I was meeting an old friend and we went out to eat some #sushi and it was so nice! yes yes yes! 💜

open source federated fully automated gay space luxury communism

I need to take a few days off this site (not drama/discourse related).

Please gently nag me to close the tab if you see me here.

Narcissists have taught me to despise and hate, and sometimes that's healthy. Sometimes you have to be willing to hear a manipulative sob story from someone who predates on others and go " I don't care"

#introductions

this is my mech,

a community of people
i care about very much

they're very strange
some of them are
entirely on fire or
kicking and screaming or
lewd over there
quietly figuring things out
helping each other or
helping themselves but
everyone is trying

some of them
we don't speak
some miss me
watch over me
visit with me
wear me out
argue with me
hold me down
lift me up

i suppose in these ways
it's just family

this is my mech,

it's not one i pilot
it's just one i inhabit

If you don't stand up for yourself, you can be easily controlled and directed by others. Whether by force, manipulation, or rumor, Narcissists can do severe harm if you don't do what they want, and will often try to direct you in a way that benefits them. Narcissists can be hard to spot because they can be charming and seem kind, but eventually when put to the test it will be obvious that they do not have your best interests in mind, and will only benefit you when it benefits them.

Narcissists are a big reason why trust is so scarce. And it can be hard to tell the difference between someone seeming a narcissist and someone being one.

To best tell a Narcissist: look at what someone does for someone they don't have to treat well.

Not to say they won't be subtle. A Narcissist prizes their reputation (over people) and they are aware that if they go too far people will turn on them. But if you notice one person treated differently than others because they will put up with it or don't provide the possible Narcissist with something, take notice.

Notice little things like that. If they're treating people drastically differently based on what they can get away with and what they can get from others, that's a massive red flag

Do not blindly trust others, even if you're in love with them, even if they're friends. If they push you into situations that harm you, if they attack you, if they make you feel bad when you don't do things their way, start to wonder if it's them instead of you.

They will cow you if they can. If they try to demonize you as soon as you get critical of them, that's a red flag right there. If they always focus on how you hurt *them* and never on how their actions or words hurt others or the harm that is done to others, that's another big red flag.

If you're constantly walking on egg shells around them... may be it's time to stop walking around them

protip: if you're drinking water in bed while watching youtube videos with an icepack on your head and a hotpack on your stomach do it on your partner's side that way it's his problem when you inevitably spill it