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I'd give my left pinky to make RECAPTCHA disappear forever
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I need to take a few days off this site (not drama/discourse related).
Please gently nag me to close the tab if you see me here.
Narcissists have taught me to despise and hate, and sometimes that's healthy. Sometimes you have to be willing to hear a manipulative sob story from someone who predates on others and go " I don't care"
this is my mech,
a community of people
i care about very much
they're very strange
some of them are
entirely on fire or
kicking and screaming or
lewd over there
quietly figuring things out
helping each other or
helping themselves but
everyone is trying
some of them
we don't speak
some miss me
watch over me
visit with me
wear me out
argue with me
hold me down
lift me up
i suppose in these ways
it's just family
this is my mech,
it's not one i pilot
it's just one i inhabit
If you don't stand up for yourself, you can be easily controlled and directed by others. Whether by force, manipulation, or rumor, Narcissists can do severe harm if you don't do what they want, and will often try to direct you in a way that benefits them. Narcissists can be hard to spot because they can be charming and seem kind, but eventually when put to the test it will be obvious that they do not have your best interests in mind, and will only benefit you when it benefits them.
Narcissists are a big reason why trust is so scarce. And it can be hard to tell the difference between someone seeming a narcissist and someone being one.
To best tell a Narcissist: look at what someone does for someone they don't have to treat well.
Not to say they won't be subtle. A Narcissist prizes their reputation (over people) and they are aware that if they go too far people will turn on them. But if you notice one person treated differently than others because they will put up with it or don't provide the possible Narcissist with something, take notice.
Notice little things like that. If they're treating people drastically differently based on what they can get away with and what they can get from others, that's a massive red flag
Do not blindly trust others, even if you're in love with them, even if they're friends. If they push you into situations that harm you, if they attack you, if they make you feel bad when you don't do things their way, start to wonder if it's them instead of you.
They will cow you if they can. If they try to demonize you as soon as you get critical of them, that's a red flag right there. If they always focus on how you hurt *them* and never on how their actions or words hurt others or the harm that is done to others, that's another big red flag.
If you're constantly walking on egg shells around them... may be it's time to stop walking around them
protip: if you're drinking water in bed while watching youtube videos with an icepack on your head and a hotpack on your stomach do it on your partner's side that way it's his problem when you inevitably spill it
I made a bone hurting juice joke today and my friend whipped this out, I've never been more proud https://witches.town/media/H8ZC8gQBKJKz2me0xMM
me: imma stop talking trash about white women bc it's not good for my health
*witnesses a white lady in a mini-van speed at two little black girls trying to cross the street and a white DUDE trying to intervene to protect them*
*looks at the imaginary camera like I'm on The Office*
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