@Maenad Don't you think you could ask her?
@Maenad You don't have any other way to contact her? Via other people on Facebook?
@Sylvhem not that I know of, no? Since she deletes her account I can't even check for friends in common (also I am literally not in touch with anyone who we might reasonably have in common).
@Sylvhem For the record, I would have last seen her 12+ years ago.
@Sylvhem ... not if she deletes her account so fast after adding and messaging me (I tend not to regularly check facebook, so it'll often be a few days before I see her message, and she'll already have deleted her account by then)?? Also I don't live there and am only in contact with one person from high school, and he doesn't live there either.