plausible deniability means disabling follow notifications and things.
actually, can we support more plausible deniability things in general? encrypt whatever you can, hide whatever you can, etc.
knowing who follows me (and when) is a liability and I don't feel comfortable with that, for example. if you wanna follow me, you can follow me, I don't wanna know.
I'd like there to be a way to fully hide that someone's following you unless you specifically search for you/them on the following/followers lists, but being able to disable follow notifications is a significant step in the right direction.
cc #mastoadmins
you should *always* tag content. whether in public, unlisted, followers-only, or even DM.
you can never know when someone might or might not want to see something. so just tag. even if you know them IRL, even if you're dating them, just tag.